Showing posts with label dreams. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dreams. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 28, 2018

If the Law of Attraction Doesn't Deliver on Time?


What do you do when the Law of Attraction doesn't seem to be working? When the dreams and goals you have been thinking about remain elusive.
Do you find that:
You have been struggling...
Disappointed when things don't turn out as expected?
Things take longer to manifest than you thought?
Your Vision Board doesn't resonate as well as it did?
Others tell you it cant be done?
What is the best course of action that you can take in these situations?
Go on a Treasure Hunt!
This may seem counter intuitive and illogical... but we are talking about the LAW of ATTRACTION. One of the many definitions of the law of attraction is;
"The Universe will bring you situations circumstances and events according to your PREDOMINANT thoughts and feelings."
It doesn't say according to your wishes, hopes and faint desires. It doesn't say according to your hard work, worry and fears. It doesn't say according to your, disappointments and complaints... Although these are all normal logical reactions to when it... "doesn't show up" on time, as expected or "on cue."
There are 7 Spiritual Laws that Dr. Deepak Chopra and other Law Of Attraction teachers quote; the LOA is one of 7 laws.
Another of the 7 law's is the "law of least resistance" and many teachers recommend being grateful for everything that shows up in your life, as it is part of your growth and journey to manifesting your desires.
You may have heard "what you resist persists". This is because we live in a Universe where Like attracts like and everything is made up of molecules and subatomic particles, essentially energy. Therefore the energy you emit, your resonance or the reverberance, that you are sending out into the Universe by feeling the feelings and emotions you have is what the universe reads and matches.
Having faith that what you want is on the way to you, and allowing TIME for attraction is crucial in the manifesting process.
There is so much more I have to share with you on this topic I could give you pages to read and right now I'd prefer to give you a practical action step... a quick TIP to help you get back in flow and on track to achieving your goals.
Knowledge is good, Information is great and Wisdom is applying and demonstrating knowledge
Going on a Treasure Hunt means turning around, looking back at how far you have come since you first set the goal. What has happened...what have you achieved...
How have you grown? When you acknowledge the small steps along the way - you begin to notice that you are attracting what you want - the seeds you planted have grown roots and maybe some shoots have broken through the ground.
You may notice that the framework for what you want IS being created.
This helps the law of attraction bring you new ideas, inspired action steps and strategies that you can use to continue on your journey. Please make sure that you still feel good when you look at your Vision Board because the vision Board is always working with your subconscious mind and the subconscious only responds to feelings and senses. The more powerful the feeling, the quicker the subconscious will work to bring you at match in reality.
Once you GET, that you are on the right path, you start to see the evidence you uncover during your Treasure Hunt, you hear the whispers that what you want is on its way to you and by finding the miracles that have already occurred since you started your journey, you can relax, trust and start to move forward in faith that you will be inspired and guided to the next best steps to achieve your dreams and goals.

Wayne Dyer quotes from a "course in miracles" that "Infinite patience brings immediate results." Knowing what you want is already here and on its way helps you be "at peace" and enjoy the journey you are on.
Going on a Treasure Hunt and looking for evidence that you have been given the start of your dreams will help you have patience, you can breathe a sigh of relief, feel that sense of trust and get a deeper knowing that you will get what you want in the perfect time!
Enjoy the Treasures You Discover
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Sunday, July 15, 2018

Here's How Your Life Changes In 1-2-3

Get Real.
Here's how your life changes in 1,2,3.
Pull the veil back. This takes 3 minutes. And if you let it? This will change your life today.
1. Get real. First off this is the most important bit because I'm asking you to get real with what's not working in your life. Take a breath - is it your sex life? Men? Money? Job? House? Where you live? How you live? Kids? Not having kids? Illness? Death? Trouble? Yes this is the get real bit. What's been happening for you these past few days? What got you down? What's getting you down now? Say it out loud to me and then write it down, just jot it down now on a bit of paper. See? This is you getting real - Goddess it suits you!



When you're honest with yourself you can only make good decisions
You deserve to - so take a breath and ask yourself:
2. How long have I been putting up with this? Dealing with this? Trying to make it work? Has my approach worked? Again - time for you to get real. It's OK, this is where you get real honest with yourself and it's OK if your answer is no. Truly.

Acknowledging the truth to yourself lightens the load.
Excuses and fakeness weigh real heavy when you believe in them
So you've heard yourself say what's really bothering you and whether or not your approach has been helping, so...
3. What action can you take that will alter your life? Remember baby steps make the big steps! Allow yourself to hear it - what action naturally springs to mind when you're honest about your situation? And here's the thing - there's usually something in the way or you would be doing this action already - right? So if you're not doing this action this minute - what thought is in your way?
Here are some of the gems I've picked up along the way from coaching clients and from the inside of my head - and they seem very real at the time:
It's OK, it will work out, it's all good! It will get better. I'll do it soon. It's up to them, not me. It's out of my hands. Who am I to do this? They won't believe me. They don't listen to me so what's the point? I can't handle that right now, it scares me. It's not the right time. I'm not good enough. I'll lose everything. That it's unchangeable.
What thought do you need to DROP this minute? Tell me out loud as you jot it down. Because this thought - is what keeps you going round in circles and not up and outta here!
So to take the action you need to and to feel better right now - what story can you begin telling yourself right now?


That you always win? That you're the STAR of your own story and the heroine (that's you) had to get real to realise she was short changing herself? In accepting a life that didn't fit her anymore? Because she was worth more than that and so today she's going to tell herself that she can have this situation exactly as she wants it and so she's going to take action right now on it which makes her feel like a million dollars... and so... and so... how does the story end?
I'm all ears! (Tell me in the comments below.)
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Wednesday, July 11, 2018

4 Reasons to Learn More About Psychology

Psychology provides the potential for understanding yourself and others as well. As such it should be clear that there are benefits to studying it. Among the topics we can learn more about how we form ideas, how we perceive the world around us, how our ideas can influence others, how we can persuade others, and very common thinking errors that we are susceptible to making and how to avoid them. Let's look at some other benefits to studying psychology.


Self-Help: Clearly the ability to work through one's own emotional difficulties is a useful benefit to the study of psychology. The insights available from the study of psychology are particularly useful in sorting through the various approaches to find one that is most compatible with each individual's needs.
Self-Knowledge: With the rise of self-help has also come the potential to increase one's self knowledge. Indeed, a good knowledge of the self is critical to the successful use of most self-help techniques. Psychology encourages the kind of reflection that one needs in order to gain a better sense of self.
Reason and Feeling: An important benefit to the sty of psychology is the recognition of the distinction between reason and feeling in thinking. While the two function together there is an important difference in their role in thinking. How they are understood separately and how they work together are both often misunderstood and the study of psychology helps to clarify these questions.

Metaphysics: At the root of every approach in psychology is a set of presumptions about how the mind works and how it is related to the brain. Too often this important aspect of the subject is ignored and consequently many people misunderstand the role of the brain in our thinking. While psychology has advanced well beyond the insights of the 17th century philosopher Rene Descartes, many people still have a basically Cartesian dualist view of the mind and the brain. But, there is much that we now know about this subject that is both interesting and useful.
At its most fundamental psychology is the study of the mind and how it works. Given the central importance of thinking and information processing in our world today the benefits of studying psychology are numerous. Given that much of what we think about how we think is wrong the study of psychology is also necessary to correct some of these mistaken intuitions. It is perhaps these less obvious benefits which are the most valuable insights we can gain from the study of psychology.
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Monday, July 9, 2018

This Is Hopeless Unless You Realize Your Potential

Life is hard, isn't it? It just seems like there is always something to challenge you, a setback, a disappointment, a frustration. Maybe you are having a mid-life crisis, or feeling burnout at work. It is so easy to get discouraged. It is so tempting to give up, to settle into a state of hopelessness, helplessness, or frustration.


Many people do give up. They live lives, as Thoreau said, of "quiet desperation." They spend their days at a boring job that doesn't pay enough, come home, have a beer or a glass wine, watch television until it is time for bed, and then get up the next day and do it all again. This is hopeless.
But if you were willing to settle for that, I doubt you would be reading this article. You are feeling called to something more. You are sensing there is more to you yet to be born. You are open to making some new choices, some new decisions, taking a few risks.
Why is that? Why would you want to risk? What is it that is calling to you? Maybe it is a dream, or a vision, or a desire that has been born in your heart to be more than who you are today.
The truth is there is only one you. In this world of seven billion people there is no one else quite like you, no one else with your particular gifts, no one else with your particular way of seeing and experiencing the world. Did you ever think about that?
If you should die without realizing your full potential there will never be another chance for the world to receive the gifts that you came here to give. No one else that can take your place. This is a huge responsibility for you to bear on your tiny shoulders, but there it is. There is only one you.


So what can you do to realize your full potential? Here are three suggestions:
1. Listen to the still small voice inside. Many people are too busy in "doing-ness"... to do lists, goals, appointments, volunteer activities, things that keep you going non-stop. It is easy to forget to take time to listen to the inner voice, that inner guidance, those little suggestions that pop into your mind from who-knows-where. But in listening, you may hear the voice of your destiny calling to you.
2. Pay attention to your heart-felt desires, to what you feel passion for. I believe your heart-felt desires are meant to guide you. They are there for a reason. They are a little bit like the yellow brick road was for Dorothy in the Wizard of Oz. The yellow brick road took her for a real adventure: excitement, jeopardy, peril, and ultimately success! And along the way, she become wiser, more heart-centered, and courageous!
3. Take a risk. When you feel hopeless, or feel like a failure in life, it is because you are telling yourself that the past equals the future. But that is only true when you make the same choice tomorrow that you made today. Take a risk, make a new choice, and watch what happens! Your potential is right there, waiting for you to claim it.

Wednesday, July 4, 2018

How to Create Life Balance Between Dreams and Habits

The greatest achievement was at first and for a time a dream. The oak sleeps in the acorn; the bird sleeps in the egg; and in the highest vision of the soul, a waking angel stirs. Dreams are the seedlings of realities…”
— James Allen
One of the huge imbalances in life is the disparity between your daily existence, with its routines and habits, and the dream you have deep within yourself of some extraordinarily satisfying way of living.
In the quote that opens this [article], James Allen poetically explains that the dream is the magical realm out of which newly created life emerges. Buried within you is an unlimited capacity for creation, what Allen calls “a waking angel” that’s anxious to plant seedlings to fulfill your dreams and your destiny.
True imagination is not fanciful daydreaming, it is fire from heaven.”
— Ernest Holmes
I simply couldn’t resist adding the Ernest Holmes quote describing this dynamic imagination as “fire from heaven.”
They’re both appropriate invitations and reminders that you need to tend to that burning fire, the dream within you, if living a balanced life is important.

How This Imbalance Shows Up in Your Life

This absence of balance between dreams and habits may be very subtle. It doesn’t necessarily reveal itself in the obvious symptoms of heartburn, depression, illness, or anxiety—it’s more often something that feels like an unwelcome companion by your side, which continually whispers to you that you’re ignoring something.
There’s some often-unidentifiable task or experience that you sense is part of your beingness. It may seem intangible, but you can feel the longing to be what you’re intended to be. You sense that there’s a higher agenda; your way of life and your reason for life are out of balance. Until you pay attention, this subtle visitor will continue to prod you to regain your equilibrium.
Think of a balance scale with one side weighted down and the other side up, like a teeter-totter with an obese child on one end and a skinny kid on the other. In this case, the heavy end that tips the scale out of balance is the overweight kid representing your everyday behaviors: the work you do, the place where you reside, the people with whom you interact, your geographic location, the books you read, the movies you see, and the conversations that fill up your life.
It’s not that any of these things are bad in and of themselves. The imbalance exists because they’re unhealthy for your particular life—they simply don’t mesh with what you’ve imagined yourself to be.
When it’s unhealthy, it’s wrong, and on some level you feel that. When you live your life going through the motions, it may seem to be convenient, but the weight of your dissatisfaction creates a huge imbalance in the only life you have now.
You’re perplexed by the ever-present gnawing feeling of dissatisfaction that you can’t seem to shake, that pit-of-the-stomach sensation of emptiness. It shows up when you’re sound asleep and your dreams are filled with reminders of what you’d love to be, but you wake and return to pursuing your safe routine.
Your dreams are also demanding your attention in waking life when you’re petulant and argumentative with others, because in actuality you’re so frustrated with yourself that you try to relieve the pressure by venting anger outward.
Imbalance masquerades as a sense of frustration with your current lifestyle. If you allow yourself to think about this “fire from heaven,” you proceed to rationalize your status quo with explanations and mental meanderings that you know in your heart are excuses because you don’t think you have the tools to get in balance.
You may get to a point where you become increasingly hard on yourself and begin seeking medication and other treatment for feelings of inadequacy—and for what’s called depression. You’ll surely witness yourself feeling more and more angry and moody, with more frequent occurrences of minor afflictions such as colds, headaches, and insomnia. As time goes on in this state of imbalance, there’s less enthusiasm for what has become the drudgery of life.
Work is now even more routine, with even less purpose and drive. These blahs begin appearing in your behavior toward your family and those you love. You’re easily agitated, picking on others for no apparent reason. If you’re able to be honest with yourself, you recognize that your irritability stems from being out of balance with the bigger dream you’ve always had, but which is now apparently slipping away.
When these subtle symptoms surface, it’s crucial to explore the kind of energy you’re giving to the scale to create balance—or in this case, imbalance. The heavy angst is weighing down your reason for being—but you are the only one who can re-balance this scale of your life.
Here are some tools to help you return to a balanced life, beginning with recognizing the ways in which you may be sabotaging yourself.

How to Create Balance Between Dreams & Habits

Your desire to be and live from greatness is an aspect of your spiritual energy. In order to create balance in this area of your life, you have to use the energy of your thoughts to harmonize with what you desire. Your mental energy attracts what you think about. Thoughts that pay homage to frustration will attract frustration.
When you say or think anything resembling ‘There’s nothing I can do; my life has spun out of control, and I’m trapped,’ that’s what you’ll attract—that is, resistance to your highest desires!
Every thought of frustration is like purchasing a ticket for more frustration. Every thought that agrees that you’re stuck is asking the Universe to send you even more of that glue to keep you stuck.
The single most important tool to being in balance is knowing that you and you alone are responsible for the imbalance between what you dream your life is meant to be, and the daily habits that drain life from that dream.
You can create a new alignment with your mental energy and instruct the Universe to send opportunities to correct this imbalance.
When you do so, you discover that while the world of reality has its limits, the world of your imagination is without boundaries. Out of this boundless imagination comes the seedling of a reality that’s been crying out to be restored to a balanced environment.

Restoring the Balance Between Dreams & Habits

The objective of this principle is to create a balance between dreams and habits. The least complicated way to begin is to recognize the signs of habitual ways of being, and then learn to shift your thinking to being in balance with your dreams. So what are your dreams?
What is it that lives within you that’s never gone away? What inner night-light continues to glow, even if it’s only a glimmer, in your thoughts and dreams? Whatever it is, however absurd it may seem to others, if you want to restore the balance between your dreams and your habits, you need to make a shift in the energy that you’re contributing to your dreams.
If you’re out of balance, it’s primarily because you’ve energetically allowed your habits to define your life. Those habits, and the consequences thereof, are the result of the energy you’ve given them.
In the early stages of the re-balancing process, concentrate on this awareness: You get what you think about, whether you want it or not. Commit to thinking about what you want, rather than how impossible or difficult that dream may seem.
Give your personal dreams a place to hang out on the balance scale so that you can see them in your imagination and they can soak up the energy they deserve.

Thoughts Are Mental Currency — Spend It Wisely

Thoughts are mental energy; they’re the currency that you have to attract what you desire. You must learn to stop spending that currency on thoughts you don’t want, even though you may feel compelled to continue your habitual behavior.
You get what you think about, whether you want it or not. Commit to thinking about what you want, rather than how impossible or difficult that dream may seem.
— Dr. Wayne Dyer
Your body might continue, for a while, to stay where it’s been trained to be, but meanwhile, thoughts are being aligned with your dreams. The esteemed 19th-century writer Louisa May Alcott phrases this idea in an encouraging and inspiring manner:
Far away in the sunshine are my highest inspirations.
I may not reach them, but I can look up and see the beauty,
believe in them and try to follow where they lead…
— Louisa May Alcott
Choosing to restore a semblance of balance between your dreams and your habits seems possible with Ms. Alcott’s phrases in mind: “look up and see,” and “believe in them.” The words bring to life an energetic alignment.
Rather than putting your thoughts on what is, or what you’ve habitually thought for a lifetime, you shift to looking up and seeing, and firmly believing in what you see.
When you begin to think in this manner, the Universe conspires to work with you, and sends you precisely what you’re thinking and believing. It doesn’t always happen instantaneously, but once the realignment is initiated in your thoughts, you’ve begun being in balance.